It won’t save you
Being black and gay
Being black and homophobic
Being black and reserved
Being black and loud
Being black and liking black partners
Being black and liking non black (often white) partners
Being black and using ‘standard English’ to articulate
Being black and using ‘Patois’, ‘Pidgin’ or ‘Kweyol’
Being black cis-male and masculine
Being black cis-female and feminine
Being black trans-male and masculine
Being trans-female and feninine
Being black and anywhere on the x&y axes of sexuality
Being black and able bodied
Being black and less accessibly mobile
Being black and following ‘keto’, ‘vegetarianism’ or a low fat diet
Being black and enjoying food in all its plentifulness
In the end nothing will save us from being black as set against whiteness, so we may as well live in our full selves and get on with doing it with joy.